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CHINESE MALE/ COREAN FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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morning massage, I know a few ABC guys that have a Corean girl fetish. I have no idea what it is. I never really gave a thought to dating a Corean girl until I met the Aussie chick. I'll leave the bedroom stuff in the bedroom, but I will say that everyone is different. You shouldn't generalize.
We're both in our late 20's. Love? marriage? whoa! We care for each other deeply. But I don't think we're going to get married or that she'll remain in the States. The timing is just not right. She's dead set on going back home for grad school and from what I hear, it is a very prestigious school. She's very head strong and independent minded, part of the reason I'm attracted to her. Anyways, I'm supposed to see her soon. Maybe I'll drop the L-bomb and M-bomb on her and see what her reaction is. Man, I hope she's not reading this!
Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 12:48:33 (PST)
morning massage man you are really generalizing as if all korean women would cook for you after making love. i don't really see korean women as domestic but wild. again overgeneralizing.
Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 00:52:12 (PST)
I never dated a Corean girl, but had many opportunities to do so. I know a lot of Chinese guys (both the FOBs and ABCs) who go nuts and gaga over Corean women, especially those with the more typical Corean or Classical Mongoloid look. From what I hear from the Chinese guys, they also say Corean girls are wild and not inhibited in bed. The sexy thing is that they will even cook for you after making love.
Friday, October 25, 2002 at 01:11:49 (PDT)
Do you love this girl? Does she love you? If you both do, don't let her go! It might be the chance of your life to get someone you were looking for for all your life. Propose to her! How old are you? If she loves you, she'll stay and won't go to that grad school in Australia. Besides, there are lots of grad schools here. Don't loose her if she is THE ONE!
Tuesday, October 22, 2002 at 11:28:50 (PDT)
just need to vent here. Not bashing any races or anything.
So about a year ago, I meet this stunning KA girl, A as in Australian. She's been working in the States for a few years. At first she was a little standoffish, but the accent got me. After a few months of trying, she finally agreed to go out to lunch. We both had a really good time together and saw each other a lot more.
Well, we went out to dinner last week and she tells me that she's going back to Australia for grad school at the end of the year. On the one hand I'm happy for her, but on the other hand, she's moving to the other side of the world.
Monday, October 07, 2002 at 14:54:19 (PDT)
yeah, your situation is very interesting. And you sound like a really responsible and serious in your intentions guy. Everything you wrote about your future is just awesome. That girl must be lucky that she has such an awesome guy who really loves her and who is really serious in his intentions. I guess, that's what she was waiting for. Does she know that you are so serious about her? Especially if she likes you, that's the most pleasant thing to know for a girl. To know that the guy doesn't just want to play with her,but thinks about the future (family and children) and tries to do his best to give her as much he can. Two years of being in love and not being able to touch her and still being trustworthy!!! I respect you for that. I really do. But how long are you gonna wait if she tells you that she loves you too? 5 more years after graduation to be able to support the family? That's too much. Why don't you guys do it together? Don't push her away when she tells you that she loves you. If she's already been waiting for 2 years, it's gonna be really really hard for her to say this simple three words. And if you push her away, she might misunderstand it.
Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 18:10:45 (PDT)
You know, my situation is quite interesting actually. I told her that i like her 2 years ago, and she liked me, but she told me to wait, and i knew what she meant by wait. She simply didn't want to go into another relationship to be disappointed again, so she needed all the time she needs to gain trust in me, and i understood that. She was right about this waiting thing after all. I mean I'm really busy with university stuff and rarely have time to see her, sometimes i dont even see her at all. On the other hand, she's always busy as well with college and work and other things. If we really did become a couple, it would have been pointless because of how little time we spent together. But I realized to be in love with someone does not mean that you have to be with her all the time, and my feelings towards her have not changed a bit for the past few years. I'm also sure that her feelings towards me have not changed either, it is just a matter of time. She also understands my hard and stressful times in school, obviously she does not want this relationship get in the way just yet, that's what i think. Although we dont communicate as much, but we seem to have a good mutual understanding. I know 2 years is a fairly long time, I also know that her trust in me is building as I still like her. But even if she does confess today or next week, I would just tell her to still put us on hold. I have to finish school first and think about my future, her future if we'd be together, and mostly our future. All the good times would come after that. To love someone is a big responsibility as of marriage and having children and other things. I have to create a good future, to be successful in order to take care of a family, I want my future to be a part of her, I want her to share what i will have, I simply want to take care of her and gave her everything I have. I'd have to show her what true love is, what she had been missing, and most important of all what it takes to really love her, not just by going out and be with each other at times, but really care about her well-being, her future, of course her failure and success, hopefully her success will be a reflection of me and what i've done for her.
Friday, September 20, 2002 at 09:41:09 (PDT)
corean grls rul
Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 00:12:41 (PDT)
Thanks for your advice. You are just reading my mind. I gave him a chance. And you are right about me expecting too much from him. I already fixed it. :-). I lowered my claims. We've been dating for about half of a year with this guy, but it feels like I've known him forever. I don't know why there is something about him that makes it so hard for me to brake up with him. I dated lots of guys, but I didn't have troubles dumping them. And here, it's different. He says that he loves me and I tried to talk to him about braking up or taking a break at least, but he doesn't even want to hear about it. Does it prove that he loves me?
You know, your situation is more difficult. If that girl didn't figure out after 2 and a half years if she likes you or not..........Did you date anybody within this period? Did you actually tell her that you like her or you are just friends? Maybe she likes you, but is waiting for some sign from you? It's very hard to deserve trust. Once you fail it, it's gonna be hundred times as hard to get it back again. I guess, when she finaly confesses that she likes you too and that she can trust you, you gonna be a happy couple for the rest of your life.
Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 07:04:11 (PDT)
To Tired Girl:
Sounds like ur giving him too many chances. Maybe there is some thing wrong with him as a person. You didn't give an example of how he's always acting weird, or maybe ur expecting to much from him because u love him, but the issue of him really loves u is uncertain, u think he loves u because u love him and that make u believe whatever he says. Girls are always naive, do u really know or see the signs of him loving u, And how long have u guys been dating? Sometimes u cant tell if the person really loves u or not, couples go through many thick and thins just to find that out, and for some, it take them almost their whole life just to find out they love each other. I'm in a similar situation myself, i like this girl for 2 years and a half now, and yet, we're not officially a couple yet. She had 3 bfs before, all of them dumped her, so she got hurt pretty bad, she thought she trusted them and depended on them, but she was naive and got hurt on the end, and she told me that she's heard the phrase "i love u" all the time, and at the end it was all a waste. So now she just hardly trusts anyone, even me although she likes me, but she cannot let that love out for me because she's uncertain if she really loves me or is it just another infatuation of some kind, and of course she could not accept me just yet, she learned that trust is not something easily given away, she learned from her painful experiences, whithout experience, ur knowledge is shallow.
So the point is when u say u love someone, u probably dont. And of course, if you believe him when he says he loves u, ur probably just naive like most girls. As for being weird, u werent to clear on that, maybe he does things weird, maybe that's how he is, but that doesn't apply he cheats on you or anything, and besides u dont really know that. So the best thing for u to do is probably just give him another chance, if he doesn't follow, then have a break with him but keep him as friends, and see how he's like after u've broken up with him, observe if he finds another girl, if he does find another girl, how he treats her and deals with things. If he really agrees to break up with u easily, he probably didn't really love you did he? Or usually if a person really liked u and broke up with u, he really wouldn't go find another person in a long time. So do what u think is right, and dont worried about this too much. Talk about the break up with him and see how he reacts, that is maybe ur first step to this solution.
Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 14:10:49 (PDT)
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