ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 23%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 12%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16% 		Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 74%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 72%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 19%

>I agree w/traveled guy,

>I'm curious. If you and your friend, >of whom you are siding with, are so >fond of only European women, hairy >thighs and all, then why don't you >just trot yourselves over to a target >site like Asian Men/European Women? >The majority of women who frequent >here are American. Also, I think it's >very easy for European women to >be "more easy going, less >materialistic, more cultured and sure >less pretentious than American women" >because it's hard to be all those >things when you are freezing your >behind off in Siberia. BTW, I don't >have any claws, just a nice French
>(hairless) manicure.

>American Beauty

Hahahaha! Will the racial conflicts never cease.=)
Kal    Friday, January 11, 2002 at 10:01:48 (PST)
Please American Beauty,
Can you please say why you hate the European woman so much? I do not see a site for the European woman and ASian man here.
I am exchange student here from Czech Republic and many American are kind to me. I also like the Asian man as they are very kind to me also. I learn in my History class that many American are of Europeans background, that is why I do not understand your hate?
Many of Victoria Secret models are Europeans, they must not be hairy.
I do not have time for the french manicure, but I think that came from France, as does some of the world most beautiful lingerie.
Please excuse English, it is third language for me to understand.

Monika, Czech Republic    Friday, January 11, 2002 at 07:31:33 (PST)
hmmmmmm....dunno what to make of Jenny's white women guide to Korean men
except it's interesting and very well written

now a Asian men guide to American white women would be nice =)

TK    Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 22:05:24 (PST)
Hi everyone... *waves* I may be classified as a white woman but I think Asian men are beautiful like other men. Men are men to me. I think the most important thing about any man is their attitude and personality.

Not too long ago I dated an older Vietnamese guy. Unfortunately, the relationship didn't work because I was a bit too young and we a hard time communicating on that front. The difference just got in the way.

In the poll my answer to the second questions was -- I don't think they would find me attractive. Many Asian Women, I have come across are fairly thin (not boney mind you) but have a lovely figure. I am bit plump. I am afraid an Asian guy would not find me as attractive. Yes, I may have a slight weight problem, but I think I have a kind and generous soul.

It has nothing to do with my skin color, but unfortunately, a lot of men like a "tight" physique.

Lots of love to all!

Dewa Nochihodo! :)
Lynn hoshi_no_ame@yahoo.com    Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 21:39:19 (PST)
I've had a few AMs e-mail me asking how I found my WF dates. So I thought I would share my experiences and maybe some of you WF can comment on where you look for AM. My answer is through friends, parties and personals.

Introductions through friends are usually very effective since you have a trusted intermediary that can help determine interest from both ends and matchmake a little. Unfortunately, unless you have a really huge network of friends, good introductions are few and far between.

Go to as many parties as you can get invited to. Then at those parties invite interesting girls (and guys) to a party you are hosting. People love getting invited to parties and it is a very non-threatening way to approach a WF you are interested in and make lots of friends. I always try to have really interesting parties. Every party I have has a theme, games, DJ, dancing and plenty of alcohol (please handle the alcohol part responsibly, no drinking and driving etc.) I also act as the MC of the party events and therefore am the center of attention. In this environment is is much easier to approach and talk to the WF that you are interested in if she shows up. Make sure you invite several girls you are interested in because you don't want to be hold an elaborate party and spend the evening moping because the one girl you were interested in didn't show up.

Personals do work! In fact I met my current GF by placing a personal in the LA Times, it was the one and only time she has ever responded to a personal. I have found that it is far more effective for me to place an ad than to try and reply to an existing ad by a WF. Results depend significantly on how well the ad is written and where it is placed. I have had personals that didn't get a single response in months and others that got a several responses per week from surprisingly attractive WFs including one who was a model. I have also dated WFs that I met on internet personals. Remember it is a question of numbers so place your ad where it will get the greatest exposure.
I am very specific in the personals indicating that I am an attractive asian guy and I am looking for an attractive WF. In personals that don't have pictures I usually describe my looks by associating with an asian celebrity, in my case I use Bruce Lee, which I am lucky isn't far off the truth. Humorous personals work the best. Once you get a response it is really important to quickly establish credibility and a good chemistry. Most females responding to personals are fearful that they may be responding to some weirdo. The rest is up to you.

Good luck!

Tan Man tanman@usa.com    Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 20:44:09 (PST)
American Beauty,

This is the well traveled Asian guy you are referring to, and I have some things I need to say to you. I don't know if you are into Asian guys because if you are not, you are in the wrong site. As an educated, young, modern Asian male, I have it within my means to go beyond the borders of the U.S. European WFs may have thought to be hairy in the old days, but now they are clean shaven right down to their privates. The best thing I like about European women are their beautiful figure. They have big natural breasts, not like those fake implants that build self-esteem in American WFs. Also, many American WFs are raised in a western diet that consists of fast food and junk food. By the time American WFs reach their late 20's, they are overweight. I could go on and on, but I just leave it up to you to go to Europe and see these beautiful women for yourself. European women rule!
well traveled AM (revisited)    Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 18:01:22 (PST)
American beauty
You don't have a clue what you are talking about, I can see you really don't know doo doo about European culture. "Hairy European women?" haha
I've rarely seen one, come to think of it never.
Ooohh..can you direct me to a AM/European women site...please.
Notice I said "in general" more European women are more cultured. They are so more laid back, sensual, yummy. Siberia? Who mentioned Siberia? Last time I checked Siberia is part of Russian Asia.
You seem like the typical American gal,talking about things you have no knowledge of.
I agree w/traveled guy    Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 17:04:01 (PST)

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