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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Two of the races and sexes to go through so many lables. What does everyone think about this?
jake pham phamine@juno.com
That may be true but obsessing over this won't solve the issue. What is needed is more movies produced by Asians and Blacks. With Am/Bf couples. I have been dating Asian men since 1983
Chinese, Filipino, And Vietnamese men. I had long term relationships with them and the only thing that broke us up were that, we out grew each other.
KaylaKelly
Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 08:53:59 (PDT)
sasha7,
I don't understand your comment? What are you saying? Does anyone understand her comment?
I don't understand?
Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 08:38:33 (PDT)
jake pham,
You are right. There are way too many labels put on Black Women and Asian Men. They try to portray the Asian Man as being feminine and soft, and the Black Women as being masculine and fierce. It is so messed up. Those are horrible labels to put people in. What strong Asian Man wants to be seen as weak and soft? And what lovely Black Woman wants to be seen as some big scarey butch? Its almost used as a way to humiliate and degrade the two. I hate it. The media definitely doesn't portray the truth, they are good at showing negative stereotypes to feed the society its bullshit.
I admit, we are seen as a rare couple. People stare. But I notice it is like they are staring at an interesting object or something at the museum... its like ... "WOw"
MyanmarBride2B
Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 07:46:13 (PDT)
Hi all...
I didn't mean "too ethnic." I guess I phrased it wrong. I meant "ghetto" and while I know that that does not mean I am ghetto, I have been nervous about actually approaching an asian man because I have felt that maybe they think black woman are ghetto. I know that might not be true, and I am probably holding my own self back from fear or rejection, but I have experienced being in a place and having people look at me and I can tell they have stereotyped me before even bothering to get to know me. I am pretty quiet for the most part, and in no way ghetto. But the media and our own people put that image out there. I am proud to be african american, I just hate the stereotypes.
CuteChicagoGirl awritersdream@msn.com
Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 06:54:13 (PDT)
Sasha7,
My child is quick to point out that she's Blasian. She always goes through the routine of explaining "both" parents ethnicities to those who inquire of her.She speaks highly of "both" parents.
America,
My husband and I were in our early 20's when our 1st child was born. Our family consists of many ethnicities. To tell a child to hate the Black side, is like telling them to hate mommies side. Teaching hatred for any race is absolutely not on our lesson plan of life. I know you weren't being mean...Can't actually know until you've walked a mile in my flip-flops:)
About Big Breast,
As for me, I feel that if the woman has a medical condition, then have the surgery. If the Asian fella wants small breast, then let him get the operation on him--hehehe! Actually, I would love to see that, I haven't had a good "hardy,har ,har" in a long time:)
To Jake Pham,
About the statistic from Time Magazine...Yes, unions of Asian Men and Black Women are rare. I long to see the day when such unions are common. I see it like this,you have to bypass society view and be determined to be happy. I say "phooey" to what society say about Asian men and "piss on" the stereotypes that are on us Black women. All of us are good people and the media has for years created the "fences" around the races to keep them seperated. I would encourage all to "bust out" and "cut loose" the stereotypes and find your true love.
If your true love is a Black woman, then give her the best of you and don't "short change" her because shes Black. And I would say the same to the women here as well.
True love comes in many colors, it's up to us to break free and pursue our "love interest".
Original...Peace and Happiness
Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 05:45:48 (PDT)
It's a question that has been pestering me for awhile. I want to do the right thing, but how to do it. I need the insight of any woman willing to help.
Maybe its nothing, but I need to know. If a woman says, "I love you." What is the proper response, is there one. I know there is a difference between loving somebody and being in love with somebody, but what is right. Suppose I do care deeply for her, but not in love. What then? I know if I said, "I love you," to a woman I would like to hear the same back. Is honesty the best policy? Should I say thank you? Should I just take her into my arms and make passionate love to her? She might dig that. I would say it, but not truly mean it.
Inquiring mind wants to know
Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 01:21:50 (PDT)
I see two key issues with an Asian male marrying an African American female:
(1) the negativity directed at the couple from (a) the Asian community, (b) the Caucasian community, and (c) the African American community--if an Asian doesn't hate the African American female, a Caucasian hates either the Asian, or the African American, or both, and an African American hates the Asian male (or the African American female);
(2) the bi-racial children grow up alienated from the Asian community, the Caucasian community, and the African American community.
I understand that these two issues relate to other bi-racial couples (whether African American female/Caucasian male, African American male/Caucasian female, Asian female/Caucasian male, or Asian male/Caucasian female), but there is something special about the Asian male/black female combination: the Asian male is the most racially hated category among the male categories in the U.S. and the African American female is the most racially hated category among the female categories in the U.S.
Asian M/African American F Universe
Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 18:13:10 (PDT)
jake pham speak for yourself. i'm an asian man and i and all of my asian buddies love women with big breasts.
dirk diggler
Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 15:28:51 (PDT)
TruQueen,
I am going to be honest with you. I am not very attracted to jamaican women that are extremely dark and heavily built. The ones I have seen that were pretty were mixed. I think everyone has a personal preference and that is mine.
007 in Tokyo
Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 10:49:39 (PDT)
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