Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Peace and Happiness,

My situation is similar to yours. I have a little boy who is going through the same thing your daughter is. I am pregnant with a little girl now. My husband and I worry about what she will have to go through. Our son is now 4 years old. Some kids were teasing him because he looks very different. He was going to a predominantly black school. He did pretty good with dealing with things at times. He is still very outspoken and not afraid to speak his mind. But that sometimes was not always the greatest thing, because he was hitting and pushing some students. So we have had to deal with teaching him to keep his hands to himself. Now the school is going to has more diversity, and there are alot of mixed kids there. Hes doing okay. Hes gotten better about the hitting. I guess it was a phase he was going through. Everything for a while was "no" and "I don't wanna". I know my child is alot younger than the age range you mentioned. It just still made me want to respond. Because I sometimes get concerned in what my children will have to go through as they get older.
British Columbia Monday, June 24, 2002 at 09:04:28 (PDT)

Winnie you should know that big breasts are attractive to all men and that includes Asian men too. We are a big breast society. Popular porn magazines are out there with only pictures of women with big breasts. In Asian the most popular Asian porn stars have very big breasts. You don't have to approach Asian men to ask that question. The answer is already there.
America Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 22:54:31 (PDT)

Peace and Happiness your daughter and children are having problems because from your story, you and your husband is raising them to feel that they are better than plain everyday black kids. Otherwise, why would your black/asian daughter only mentions her asian dad and not her black mother to her black schoolmates? Your daughter is either ashamed of you, or you have pushed it into her head that Asian is more important and prettier and better. I'm not trying to be hard on you because you've said that you had 5 children and your first baby was when you were 17 so at that young age you didn't know what you were doing. As time goes by I hope your parenting will improve and just by coming here for advice is a step in the right direction. Good Luck.
America Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 22:51:08 (PDT)

Marietta with Asian men weight is an issue with the women they date. they date asian and white women first and then maybe a black woman since most black women like hispanic women have weight problems. Asian men like curvy women, but not overweight curvy women types.
America Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 22:45:05 (PDT)

I think African American woman are one the most attractive woman out there. The only thing I think that would keep an Asian Male dating an African American is peer pressure.
Look at it this way, if all you hung around with was one race and all your friends were dating the same, what would you do?
I don't think i'm scared to approach a BW, it's just they come to me first. I love how they're so forward and honest about everything.
KEi-C Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 18:36:02 (PDT)

Peace and happiness,
". I often wondered what do those children parents discuss in front of those kids to make them so angry towards those who aren't their hue?"

I think it's the media,parents and sometimes teachers. When they talk about how pretty or cute some girl is, 9 times out of ten she's lightbright/biracial w/ long straight/curly hair.
So, naturally the ones who don't fit are made to feel not as pretty or ugly and they take their anger out on the wrong people. I just think it's really sad that these little girls get picked on, feel ugly and are angry.
justathought Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 10:26:44 (PDT)

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