Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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To Asian Athlete...
Very well put! I was just giving my opinion. Just to avoid confusion, when I was referring to blacks, I was referring to blacks here in America. I don't even consider blacks here as Africans so I wasn't making any reference to them. I agree w/what you were saying about the intermixing w/whites and them being "bred" that way. I don't think there's any Americans, white or black, that are "pure bred" at this point! haha You seem very intelligent and I'm sure that regardless of whether you work out of not, you won't have a problem attracting black females. Just keep in mind that a lot of them will think you're not attracted to them so you'll probably have to make the first move! But don't give up. I find many Asian men to be more shy than other men so knowing that, I will try to make eye contact and smile to give them that little extra encouragement that it's ok to approach me. Since then, I've been dating a lot more Asian men. Not that I prefer them over other men but growing up in the midwest, I'm just tired of dating only black and white men!!
Caligirl Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 23:13:17 (PDT)

I think Asian men are turned off by Black women who act too ethnic. And unfortunately, those few make it bad for others like me.

CuteChicagoGirl awritersdream@msn.com Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 18:25:15 (PDT)

Asian Athlete,
I just want to know where you are from. Why? Because you mentioned Mississippi and hardly anyone says anything about MS. Just curious.
LadyK ladykagero@collegeclub.com Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 18:06:32 (PDT)

Asian Athelete,
I agree with much of what you've said, but I have seen many "thick & tall" West Africans, which is where most African Americans originate from.

When you describe the stature of Africans, you must differentiate, as it is far too diverse of a population to lump all into one category. Southern African men, from my experience, do seem to be smaller or shorter. East Africans tend to be taller and skinnier, but W. Africans (African Americans), are by far the the most "well-combined" as far as the physical body; meaning, they typically have height and mass.

But you are right in that we may be seeing more "well-built" African American men, because of where their priorities lie... i.e. basketball, football; in general, more sports-oriented goals.

Cinnamon Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 13:24:12 (PDT)

Fall in love, if you get hurt, learn from it, and love again.

I'm in the learning phase right now, trying to move on, trying to forget a certain Black lady. Its hard, cause she seems to be in every corner of my mind, even now as I'm writing. She is so beautiful, brilliant like the sun, but soft as the moons glow.

Sometimes you have to meet a couple of the wrong people in life, so that when you meet the right one, you'll know.

She's not wrong, just not for me.

Maybe next lifetime.
Azn Romeo Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 12:42:07 (PDT)

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