Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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I finally found a place that addresses this issue! I have always been attracted to Asian men but I feel like they would never look twice at me. What is it that keeps us apart?
CuteChicagoGirl awritersdream@msn.com Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 11:20:24 (PDT)

I like...
1. Kyo- Dir En Grey front man. 5ft 3in
2. J- Jun Onose ex-bass player of Luna Sea. 6ft with muscles (he's built himself up)
3. Gackt- Solo artist. 5ft 9in. Medium build, but VERY sexy
4. Shuse- Bass player from La'Cryma Christi 5ft 10in.
5. Inoran- ex-Guitar player of Luna Sea.
5ft 7in & kinda skinny, but I'd jump on him!
6. Andy Lau- I don't care if he is in his 40's, he's sexy.
7. Ekin Cheng- Nuff Said
8. Aaron Kwok- see #7
All of these men have different builds & different looks, but I love them all! they are cool men with great personalities. While looks do play a part, looks alone will get you nowhere. Looks get you in the doors, but your personality could get you kicked out.
AsioPhile 81 Monday, June 17, 2002 at 20:06:46 (PDT)

Marlena5000:
Are you for real???? If you have such low self esteem, why are you here? Look, it's nice to know that you are interested in AMs & all, but nobody wants to hear you sob & bash yourself. If you don't think that they'll accept you, then they won't. The last thing ANY MAN wants is a woman that feels like you do about yourself. If you are an attractive woman, then an "Oriental" (not a nice word, say East Asian) man will find you attrative, anyway. COLOR DOESN'T OR SHOULDN'T MATTER.
AsioPhile 81 Monday, June 17, 2002 at 19:54:59 (PDT)

"Most black men, purely by heredity, are naturally muscular."

At risk of sounding like some mad scientist and anthropolgist, I'd like to protest.

I heard that many black men today are large and muscular because their ancestors were bred by slave masters for size and strength. I say this has an element of truth to it; Africans from Africa are mostly average at best, some are downright skinny and short. One could attribute this to malnutrition in african nations, but even accounting for that, I say Africans are about the same height as any race, about 5'9". Build-wise, they are very slim. This is a natural cause of evolution. In a hot climate, massive upper body mass isn't necessary, as it produces excessive body heat and is also cumbersome when evading predators. The svelte, gazelle-like build is ideal for movement and energy efficiency. Also, people are skinny in Africa because working out and sports is the LAST things on people's minds, much like the majority of Asia. Some black men in America make it thier LIVES to be the best b-baller in the neighborhood, or dream of scholorships to USC or Mississipi. Hence they work out obsessively, and have the physiques. Trust me, no matter how much genetics help you, only and ONLY hard, hard work will get you the physique. Only .1% of people are 'born' hugely muscular. Also, scientific journals have documented that Caucasians natually have more upperbody mass than Mongoloids or Negroids, so the greater upper body mass of African Americans can probably attributed to their admixture with white Americans (as high as 20% white blood in N. Amerian blacks), on top of the fact that they were 'bred' for strength.

For example, I am a natural mesomorph, meaning that I have natural muslce mass and have wide shoulders. I stand 6'0". But throughout HS I was overweight and was as soft as a jelly doughnut. in college I start working out and I went from a fat 190 pounds to 180 pounds of muscles w/o virtually no fat. I almost made the football team by Junior year, but was cut at the very end, and by then I had other priorities like my senior thesis and a special woman.
Asian Athlete Monday, June 17, 2002 at 11:28:09 (PDT)

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