Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Green-

I would like to give you my email address. Have you written anything else recently?

"the REAL troll catcher"
(aka)
Didi :P
Didi Esfrankinsense@aol.com Monday, June 17, 2002 at 08:06:38 (PDT)

Loves Elegant Black Ladies,

I've just read your question. Actually, it doesn't really matter about how much muscule a man has (or to me that's how it seems). I can find a skinny man hot, a muscular man a hunk, or a man who's a little on the cubby side to be adorable.
(and I've seen a lot where I work.)

Anyway, as far as body, size and whatever, here's my philosphy,

"It's not the size (of body or otherwise) that matters, but it's the owner and how they handle themselves that's important."

And I hope one day there'll be one who can love me the way I want to be loved.

The ORIGINAL CB sending chocolate love zen style Sunday, June 16, 2002 at 18:18:36 (PDT)

I'd be concerned that an asian man would rather prefer an asian woman of their own nationality than me. And then IF they did want a Black female they may not want someone as fairskinned as me since I am a color similar to many Orientals. So I might not fit someone's fantasy either way.
marlena5000 marlenecar@webtv.net Sunday, June 16, 2002 at 15:30:59 (PDT)

To "Loves Elegant Black Ladies"... I can't speak for all black women, especially since I'm biracial, but I do think that since most black women grew up around black men, they would tend to be more attracted to muscular men. Most black men, purely by heredity, are naturally muscular. HOWEVER! If a man of ANY race builds up his body, I think he will find that more women tend to notice him...especially black women. And you are right that personality is very important. I have dated well built black men (some football players) and I must say that their personalities made them very unattractive! They looked good but they were just all too well aware of it!!! PS...I happen to LOVE Asian men! :-)
CaliGirl Sunday, June 16, 2002 at 11:06:03 (PDT)

I have a question?

To generalize, do you think black women's physical preferences in men on the average lean toward the muscular side more so than other females? If not, how much of a difference does body muscularity make in terms of arousing physical attraction.

I realize that personality is a key factor, but since I've begun working out for health reasons as well as sports related reason, so I was wondering what kind of effect would such an increase in muscular mass have on women...
Loves elegant black ladies... Sunday, June 16, 2002 at 02:18:12 (PDT)

Black girls have gorgeous hair...
Both my brother and I agree that girls with wild, kinky look the most attractive...

Has anybody seen that really hot black video game character named Vanessa in the latest edition of Virtua Fighter on the playstation2??

Kirai Sunday, June 16, 2002 at 02:11:36 (PDT)

in response to "I just want to say you are soooo talented" japanimation3D

I read a story by you on a site. Your story was really good! I haven't put a story on there yet, but have thought about it. I doubt if it will be as good as your style of writing. You are very talented Green.

In response to the posts made by Jon C and beauty +4 comments-
I think it sounds like a names stealer or maybe a troll. It is a little difficult to tell. Beauty's comments did make her sound like a troll. But so did the other 'comments made'
(brillo pad hair, etc.)
I think we should all ignore the ignorant posters and get on with the real topics of discussion :)
the REAL troll catcher Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 07:50:03 (PDT)

You are right Sean, that person is ignorant. I would never call our hair such things as a mop or brillo, and no she can't be a Black female. How would you like it, if someone says White hair is like a Horse tail, Or Asian Hair is like that of a cat. You wouldn't like it now would you? Sheeps skin would be more acurate, for Black hair, which is very beautiful. And to Mio's comment,(you go girl!)
KaylaKelly Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 03:25:03 (PDT)

I just have two questions. My first question is, who is the cute Asian guy in Nelly Furtado's "Turn Out Da Light" video? Not Mykal Bean, but the other guy, the one wearing the orange head scarf and white tank top that Nelly playfully pushes away from her? My other question is, who is that gorgeous Asian guy in that Naughty By Nature and 3LW "It Feels Good" video? The Asian guy that waves at the beginning of the scene where the Asian guys dance?
Lamoire Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 01:19:39 (PDT)

japanimation> Thank you. I'm glad you liked it. If you don't mind, could you email me which site and which story you read, so I can be clear as to what you're responding to?
Green afro_dyte2000@yahoo.com Friday, June 14, 2002 at 11:47:34 (PDT)

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