Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Beauty,

Your name means nothing. Without the brains, beauty becomes irrelevant. You have clearly displayed that you are lacking in the brain department. So what do you have left to go on? Your looks? I doubt if that even exists in your case. I am thinking your a total fraud. Oh and by the way. Have you stolen any new sns' lately?
Jon C Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 10:34:44 (PDT)

Tired of Confusing men

You need to ask him straight up what does she mean by what he said. You are a grown women, none of this beating around the bush crap. Do you two have a future together or not. And this goes for any relationship You need to know where you stand and not just have this fantasy world of what you "THINK" is going on.

Farah Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 09:39:02 (PDT)

Who is that asian man in the Missy Elliot (take away), Nelly Furtado (turn off the lights), Mary J. Blige (family affair), and the new Faith Evans video (burnin' up)???????? In the family affair video he was one of the dancers wearing white and red......
c-dub4fan Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 03:15:20 (PDT)

I disagree about the hair thing. What's wrong with liking good hair? I know some white people that like Asian hair also, It's not slave thinking, to like something you don't have.
KaylaKelly Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 00:21:50 (PDT)

Beauty needs to realize that the majority of Chocolate Bunnies don't spread their legs to every tom, dick, and harry.

I never did!

Some of us has been in relationships that didn't work out. And in my case, they didn't lead to sex!

I myself love asian men because that's what I'm attracted to.

It's not my fault that society's ruining us.
The ORIGINAL Chocolate Bunny So take that! Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 20:19:46 (PDT)

Hey Yall, read my comment on the Best Kept Secrets of Asian American Men post...
Pat da rice ImaGIN2899@aol.com Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 19:13:03 (PDT)

To: the Mad Troll using the name (Beauty)
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I can tell that you are really a Mad Troll seeking angry feedback from BFs. You get yourself off on seeing the Black Females get all upset. You are so transparent that its real pathetic.
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"other black women like myself uses our intelligence to just date Asian men because we like them"

Really? YOU are a black woman? LOL! You could have fooled me. I didn't think for one moment that you were a black woman. Especially with all of those 'WhiteWashed' 'oreo cookie' messages you put on here. And intelligent? LOL Yea right.
mad troll catcher Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 18:04:09 (PDT)

beauty: Give it up!!!!
sweetmissy Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 15:22:06 (PDT)

Beauty + her 4 comments = PURE IGNORANCE
ha! enough said.

Beauty,
I was saying that Toma should stick with the woman he deeply loves. I didn't tell him not to date black women you idiot. I told him that no matter what woman he dates, his heart will be with his one true love. What I said had nothing to do with the COLOR of the woman he is in love with. I made myself quite clear. I knew some idiot like yourself would have something stupid to say about my comment. Besides, my comment had nothing to do with YOU honey. It was addressed to Toma, thankyou. Not to you. I don't recall addressing someone named BEAUTY, when I made the comment. Do you?

"Most BF/BM are attracted to asian hair is because they think they have 'good hair' "

Hmm. Sounds like you beauty, must have a problem with hair. Some sort of a complex about your own hair in particular. Don't hate because your hair is unable to withstand the average brush and comb. Not all of us have your brand of hair sweetheart. Unlike you, not all of us have 'brillo pads'and 'mops' for hair. I for one, am happy with the soft and curly hair that I was born with.That God gave me. Even if he had given me different, I would still be happy with that too. I don't need a man to make me feel validated, by his hair texture or his skin. Don't speak for everyone stupid, speak for yourself.
Beauty + her 4 comments = PURE INGNORANCE Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 14:29:33 (PDT)

Beauty is a troll. Possibly a WF or an AF, hoping to stirr up more things on this poll. Why else would there be an entire section of her postings?
Beauty, you are one big joke. I have nothing to say about your comments...although... I do have one word to accurately describe you, "TROLL".
If you were truly educated you would know that Thai people live in Burma. You wouldn't know anything about that, because you are stupid,ignorant and a troll.
Get a life.

someone who cares Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 10:46:58 (PDT)

Just wondering if they're are any men on this forum anymore? :-) I enjoy reading the posts but would love to see more input from Asian men and their opinions towards Black women. It would be nice to see Asian women's point of view on Asian men dating Black women. Just a thought
Tea Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 10:39:10 (PDT)

asian men can look REALLY good, especially japanese (mmmmm) BUT the one thing that i worry about is that they arent interested in black girls. i love all men (gotta be a minority though)and i think everybody should explore.
cb Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 09:27:29 (PDT)

tired of confusing men,

Why would your THAI boyfriend go back to BURMA so he can marry a THAI girl? I'm sorry your story doesn't make sense to me.
Beauty Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 10:26:37 (PDT)

SoShy! I think the reason you saw that most BF/BM are more attracted to Asian hair is because they think they have "good hair." You know how so many of our people are still thinking with the minds of slaves.
Beauty Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 10:22:52 (PDT)

It's the Chocolate Bunnies of the world that keep the hoochie mamma stereotypes alive in men's mind.
Beauty Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 10:20:27 (PDT)

MoonAngeL3 why shouldn't he date black women on the rebound because another race of women made him mad? Isn't that what most of the black women here do all the time. "I date only asian/white men because black men did me wrong and are no good". I hear that sh*t all the time. Most black women date Asian men with the delusion that Asian men are better than black men and other black women like myself uses our intelligence to just date Asian men because we like them! If black women do it, Toma should be able to do it too. Why yell at him when black women are guilty of doing the exact same thing.
Beauty Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 10:18:55 (PDT)

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