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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Toma,
It sounds as though it will be a rebound sort of thing. I could be wrong. But that is what it sounds like. You are saying your involved with the swedish girl, and deeply in love with her. You think this girl you are in love with is going to be moving away. So hell, you go and get yourself a 'black girl' to make it all better. Why don't you just stick to the one you love. If you decide to date a black woman, or any other woman it shouldn't be for some rebound game. Why do men do things like that? It just doesn't make any sense to me.
"a lot of them are either with children or just not single and I have been having a hard time meeting them recently"
You are going to be having a hard time meeting any woman at this time when it comes to true matters of the heart. Your heart is with the one you are deeply in love with. Be honest with yourself. Can you just turn the deep feeling of love on and off like a light switch? Get real.
MoonAngeL3   
Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 07:28:30 (PDT)
Well,
I have one thing to say. For "Tired of Confusing Men", that bf sounds like a total loser. If he loves you then he should consider spending the rest of his life with you-even if he goes back to burma. But for him to say that he wants to go back and start a family with a Thai girl? Puh-lease!! The little boy has no balls!!!!
I think it's best to break up with him and find a better asian man-one who REALLY wants to spend his life with you. Trust me on this one, kid. My last bf was a Chinese man who wanted to leave his wife, but has a Latina "friend" who's a total hootchie mama (and EVERYONE I knew knew it). I confronted about him twice on it. At first he apologized, but then he got mad, & accused me of being posessive. [what he didn't know is that I went through the same thing with my last bf back in 1997 (& found out he was seeing someone while he was seeing me AND wanted to marry his so-called "pen pal" who's a divorced woman in Alaska)]
Back to the story at hand, when he said some hurtful things along with his accusation, I got on him about the things he's posessive about and I told him, "I did fine without you then, and I'll do fine without you now." and left.
Not long after that I (kinda-sorta) messed around with another guy, but felt guilty, wanting to make up with my ex........
.............and the loser didn't want to do it!!!!! (almost turned lez because of him! And I didn't!)
Anyway, my best advice is to leave while your heart is still in one piece, if he's serious about you, then he'll change his tune; if not, then head for a place that has LOTS of single asian men because you're better off without him!
The Chocolate Bunny Who Wants a Real Asian Man With Balls Balls the size of Grapefruits   
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 21:13:28 (PDT)
tired of confusing men,
I would trust your gut feeling about this. My thoughts on the subject is he is not sure you are the one for him and it seems to me he is leaning more towards he is not thinking about marrying you although he is dangling the carrot in your face to give you the false hopes that this can happen in the future.
If I was in your situation, I'll communicate what you are expecting from the relationship. If he continues to suggest there is no future for the two of you (whether overtly or not), then I say it is best to move on with your life. You have your answer at this point.
Since he is that certain about moving back to Burma and has not consulted with you about your feelings on this subject,
then I see this as a red flag for no future plans for marriage. But, keep your eyes and ears open to those subtle clues in order to confirm this to yourself that this is true.
If you find out he is not serious about this relationship and you have a pattern of attracting these types of men, then it is time to do some self-exploration and figure out what is attracting you to these types of men and/or what signals you are sending out that is attracting them to you.
Enlightened BF   
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 14:46:34 (PDT)
tired of confusing men:
All I can say is, as the female, you are the one in control, and this should always be the case. The man does not make the final decision as to whether or not you're going to be together. This is how you have to see things. If you have this understanding, you will not tolerate the type of behavior that you have experienced from some of these men. I don't see this as a racial issue; just an issue of you needing to understand your worth.
My Asian man knew right from the start... wasn't gone be no using me, OK!? Now I've got a beautiful ring to show for it, and wedding plans in the works:)
A woman's worth   
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 13:31:56 (PDT)
I've been reading the posts at this site for the links of AM/BF and AF/BM forums, specifically (not at first!) looking for comments regarding physical attraction. If I am not mistaken, by an overwhelming percentage, AM&AF seem to be impressed by the physiques of BM&BF, while BM&BF seem to be impressed by the facial features (and hair) of AM&AF. I found this odd, well, at least, humorously interesting! I'm certain that I am stating the obvious (to some of you know-it-alls), but does anyone else find this just a little bit interesting and perhaps, perplexing? As a BF, I am amused!!! I would rather have an AM look at my body than my face any day!!!! (Just jokin') Thank God, I don't have big boobs! =;?)> . . . or maybe, I should wish that I did!
SoShy!   
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 11:46:48 (PDT)
Black Gurl in Japan,
I must say, that I also find black women from Africa very attractive. Especially the ones from Ethiopia -- they are AMAZING looking. This is how I would describe their look: an equal mixture of Sub-Saharan African and Middle Eastern/Arab features. They have beautifully shaped graceful heads that have those tiny 'dolphin' forheads (Negroid physical traits), and sharp facial features (caucasiod/arab traits). They have dark to mocha complexions. These people are relatively rare in North America, but I saw SO many beautiful Eithopian women in Italy and Greece, as well as other European nations. They are HOOOOTTT.....
Oh- LOWDY!!   
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 10:21:42 (PDT)
My fiancee is also from Burma. He is always talking about going back. But due to the government situation going on, he hasn't been too quick to go back there. Because, he risks being put in prison.
Mio's girl   
Monday, June 10, 2002 at 09:35:51 (PDT)
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