Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Okay everyone, what do you think about this. I need a little insight on this situation I am in. I have known this Thai man for 4 years. Lately, we have both been discussing getting married and possibly having a child in the future. We were having this nice conversation yesterday, about us. He told me he plans to move back to Burma in 10 years for certain. The way he said it sounded as though he would be doing this 'alone'. I asked him if he could elborate some more on that. He said he planned to do this. And that whether he and I are together depends on him. He started going on and on about his country and how he missed it. Both of his parents passed away, and he said he needs to start a family. He began telling me how it was his intention in the beginning to marry a Thai girl. It started sounding like he didn't plan on us being together. The conversation just went on and on about his future plans (which I wasn't mentioned in them at all)... So I was under the impression that he has it all figured out for himself. I told him that I was glad that he finally told me all this stuff. Then I told him I had some things to do, and hung up. I felt bad afterwards, like he only planned to be with me until he had enough money saved to leave the country. My mother said thats what it sounds like. If anyone has any insight on this, please give it. Just as long as its not a TROLL-STYLE post please. I have been in a relationship before with a man who couldn't make up his damn mind. Its like he didn't know what he wanted. It feels like this may be another one of them. Any insight????PLEASE?????
tired of confusing men Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 14:35:26 (PDT)

Right now I am involved with Swedish girl who I really am deeply in love with, but she might be going home soon and if we end up not being together my next girlfriend will probably be a black girl again. Because I actually find black women the most appealing, but in my area a lot of them are either with children or just not single and I have been having a hard time meeting them recently.
Toma tomarx7@aol.com Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 19:32:16 (PDT)

Perpetual Bloom,

It is always better to start out as friends first. I think it makes a relationship harder to work with if it starts out based on 'fun only'. It is better to carry yourself like a lady, and wait. No wonder you feel so embarrassed when you look back. That is my very reason for saving myself. When I finally do decide I am ready, I won't throw it away on some guy on a one night stand. It is going to be special.
I have been dating an AM. He respects my virginity. Unlike you, I choose to wait.

miss virgin islands Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 06:35:08 (PDT)

My situation started out as being not so serious. He and I just started seeing each other on more "fun" terms. It started getting serious 1 year later. And now we are at the point...its been 6 years now. I can't believe its been so long. For a while I was afraid to take it to a more deeper emotional level with him...because we started out in this thing just for fun. Both of us agreed that we didn't want anything serious. So I was like,"How can we change it all of a sudden to something else"? I admit. It is better to not start out the way we did. Maybe it would be alot different. But I do like that he and I have become alot wiser now and have started to grow up more. I don't encourage anyone to go the route I did with my boyfriend. But I do encourage the part of growing together. We both had alot of growing up to do. Finally deciding to settle down, and stop playing so many games. I think it didn't really have so much to do with what color this man is. Both of us had that need in us, and we both went for it. Like two immature kids. We are both alot better than that now. Its embarrassing when I think back on it. But thats the way life is. It is full of mistakes and learning from our mistakes.
perpetual bloom.. Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 19:10:10 (PDT)

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