ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24% 		Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

I just found out that my girlfriend is pregnant. I am really happy about it. We have always talked about someday having a baby together. My parents are really pissed off. They are saying that she is probably pregnant by somebody else. That she is probably a slut. They don't know her like I do. They say their trying to protect me from getting my heart broken.
I know she is not that kind of girl. I have strong feelings of love for her. We have know each other since highschool. She was a bookworm, shy type alway in the library study. Always getting good grades. She comes from good family, her parents raised her with strong values. I do know that she was virgin, and I feel bad that I got her pregnant so soon. We aren't married yet. I still respect her so much, and would like to marry her. My parents said that if I don't get away from her, then they will cut me off. They say it is a dishonor to keep this girl. I love my parents.
I feel like I have choose for my parents, and the woman I love.
This is crazy! It's driving me crazy!
J.Chang    Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 07:34:32 (PST)
Luscious Jackson:
Hey thanxx I appreciate the encouragement girl. I will take that into consideration. I guess sometimes it can feel a little frustrating. I'll try not to be too discouraged. There are some fine vietnamese men out here!

I am right with you on that subject about Japanese men though.Those were the main ones I was talking about. I thought they dated mostly white chicks?
I mean, thats the message I get from them. And its not that I haven't found Japanese men to be attractive. Its just...Thats how it seems to be, "epecially" in the Little Tokyo
area!
I wonder why its like that? Isn't that messed up?
LeLe    Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 05:12:53 (PST)
I am from vancouver canada. I love asian men especially chinese men. I must say they are hard to date, since alot of them date with in their own race. I do find them attracted to my looks and my body. When they look at me I can tell thery want to fuck me. I have dated chinese guys in the past and they are some of the politest men I have come across and a few of them were good in bed. I think here in canada there are people of all races that are not open to the black race and I beleive this is due to their being so many stero types about black people through the media. I visited china a few months ago and the perception I got from the chinese there was alot peaceful than the one I get here in canada.
My name is gail I am a black female ladyblacca@yahoo.com    Monday, March 18, 2002 at 14:15:45 (PST)
Xia & Akaiinu sincity:

Thanks for your responses. They are very interesting. I have a friend who is half Black and half Japanese. Her mother is Japanese. They have 8 kids. Isn't that amazing?! I guess it depends on the person.

Which gender do you think are more open to interracial relationships? I think men are open.
Luscious Jackson    Monday, March 18, 2002 at 14:08:31 (PST)
Sandiegoriceboy:
Thanks alot for the helpful information
I will definitely check out those places. I really appreciate it!
:)
TroyLisa    Monday, March 18, 2002 at 09:09:32 (PST)

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